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What to automate in your Instagram DMs, and what to keep personal

Small businesses in San Francisco run lean, and their customers can tell a canned reply from a real one. This page sorts Instagram DMs into the ones an auto reply should take and the ones a person should, and shows how draft and autonomous modes, tone settings and handover keywords draw that line in AYDUKE.

  • Tone, style note, reply language and signature are yours to set
  • Handover keywords send complaints and custom requests to a person
  • Public comment replies run in their own mode, off by default

Free for 7 days, no credit card required

Automate or keep

Let the assistant answer, or keep it for yourself

Good candidates for auto reply

  • Hours, holiday closures and how to find you
  • Price questions covered by your own entries
  • Booking a standard service or a class spot
  • Transit and parking notes
  • Stock questions answered from your Shopify or WooCommerce catalog
  • House rules, such as "can I bring my dog"

Better with a person

  • Complaints and refund requests
  • Custom quotes, large orders and private events
  • Anything about health or personal circumstances
  • Press, collaboration and wholesale requests
  • Regulars who expect to hear from you

Handover keywords such as "refund", "complaint" or "wedding" send those chats to you. The assistant stops and flags them instead of improvising.

An auto reply that still sounds like the studio

An example conversation, not a real customer. A small ceramics studio set its tone to friendly and added a short signature; class spots come from its calendar.

Customer: hey, any spots left in the wheel class this weekend? total beginner
Assistant: Hi, glad you asked. The Saturday beginner wheel class at 11:00 a.m. still has spots, and Sunday at 3:00 p.m. has more room. It runs two hours, with clay and firing included. Want one of those?
Customer: Saturday. is there parking or should I take Muni?
Assistant: Street parking is tight on weekends, so most students come by Muni or bike, and there is a bus stop a block away. Your Saturday 11:00 a.m. spot is ready; once you confirm, a confirmation email with a link to view or cancel is sent.
Customer: confirming, thanks
Sample conversation. The assistant only answers from the information you give it.

The transit note is an entry in the studio knowledge base. The assistant has no live transit data and does not pretend to.

Why the line matters more in this city

High rents keep many businesses here small: a two-chair salon in Hayes Valley, a bakery in North Beach with one person at the counter, a studio in the Mission that also runs workshops. The owner is often the entire customer service department.

Customers use polished software in their day jobs, and they choose independent shops because those feel personal. An auto reply that sounds like a call center undoes that. One that answers the practical question quickly, in your voice, and steps aside for everything else protects it.

Tourism and business travel add a steady flow of first-time questions, some in other languages, and the microclimates mean "is the patio open" has no single answer. Write those answers in your own words in the knowledge base.

If you came here looking for a San Francisco social media agency: AYDUKE is software, not an agency, and nobody from AYDUKE writes your replies or posts. It gives you the tools to run that routine yourself. An agency you like can keep doing the creative side, and agencies can use AYDUKE for their own clients too.

Settings that shape how the auto reply sounds

  • Tone Formal, friendly or short.
  • Style note A sentence or two about how you talk, for example "We say hi, not hello. No emojis."
  • Reply language and signature The language the assistant answers in, and the sign-off at the end.
  • Working hours What happens inside and outside them: answer, collect details, or say when you are back.
  • Daily reply limit A cap on how many AI replies go out in a day.
  • Public comments Replies to public comments are a separate mode, off by default.

Topic by topic: answer automatically or hand over

TopicSuggested handlingWhy
Hours, location, transit notesAutomatic answerFacts that rarely change
Booking a standard service or classAutomatic answerThe system only offers real open times
PricesAutomatic once your entries are completeIt only answers what you wrote
Custom orders and eventsHandover keywordNeeds your judgment
Complaints and refundsHandover keywordA person should reply

Reply mode is one setting. Start in draft mode for everything, then switch to autonomous and use handover keywords for the topics you keep.

Small shops where the balance matters most

  • Bakeries and cake makers

    Daily bakes answered automatically, custom cake requests handed to you. More: bakeries, custom cake bakers.

  • Art classes

    Class spots with a fixed capacity, booked in the DM. More: art classes.

  • Hair salons

    Standard services book themselves; color corrections go to the stylist. More: hair salons.

  • Boutiques

    Sizes and stock from your catalog; orders and payment stay in your own store. More: boutiques.

  • Freelance social media managers

    Several clients in one panel within the plan's account limit, one calendar, XLSX or CSV reports, and a free reseller program that pays commission while referred businesses keep paying. More: freelance social media managers.

Getting Instagram auto reply running

  1. Use a Business or Creator account

    Instagram replies and publishing need one of the two.

  2. Connect through your Meta developer app

    The connection uses OAuth and your own app, with a step-by-step guide in the panel.

  3. Teach it

    Point it at your verified website: up to 500 pages, refreshed weekly, plus Shopify or WooCommerce catalogs. Your manual entries override the site.

  4. Give consent and start in drafts

    AI processing begins only after your consent. Read the drafts for a while.

  5. Add handover keywords, then go autonomous

    List the words that should always reach you, then let routine replies go out on their own.

  6. Post things that prompt the right DMs

    Class dates, new flavors, restocks. Schedule them for Instagram, Facebook and Google in the same calendar.

Hear your own voice in the replies

The demo opens at sign-up with no credit card. Set a tone and a style note, send your account a few DMs, and adjust until the answers sound like you.

Frequently asked questions

Can the auto reply handle Instagram comments as well as DMs?

Yes, in a separate mode for public comments, which is off by default. Many shops keep it off and answer comments themselves from the unified inbox.

Does the assistant know about Muni delays or fog on our patio?

No. It has no live transit or weather information. It answers from your own notes, for example your patio policy, and hands anything else to you.

We also sell online. Can it answer stock questions?

Yes, if your store runs on Shopify or WooCommerce the catalog is read. Orders and payments stay in your own store; the chat answers questions and points people there.

Do San Francisco customers get text confirmations?

No. In the US, customers receive a confirmation email and a reminder email with a link to view or cancel. You receive new-booking alerts by SMS and email.

Is AYDUKE based in the Bay Area?

No. AYDUKE is remote software from a company registered in the United Kingdom, with no local office. Setup is guided in the panel, and the contact page reaches us.

Ready to run your business from one panel?

Try it free for 7 days, no card required: connect your accounts, schedule your first post and train your assistant.